As many of you know, I am still in post-divorce mode even though I am not officially divorced. Heath and I have been separated for a year and we are still in limbo as to how we are going to handle stuff.We seem to get along better now then when we were together.... but we still have many differences that we are attempting to overcome. We would like to take the dissolution route versus the divorce route.. but that is a blog for another time. I also plan on filing for bankruptcy... which leads me to my move.
I have been going back and forth as to whether or not to move to a smaller place. The kids have been spending m ore and more time with Heath as Serenity is in school full time and my work schedule makes it difficult to keep either of them overnight. I found a great little place across the street from my job. Unfortunately, the rent is no cheaper, but it is less to heat and a 2 block walk to work.. so there is potential to save money.. I just have to commit to it.
A lot of the goals that I had set for myself this year were derailed. I have been through a lot.. stuff that could have been avoided had I made better decisions, but you live and you learn.. and at 23 and married.. I feel like 2011 was a phase that I NEEDED to go through, but so glad is over. I have no choice but to make 2012 better... as whole.
To help me along on my 2012 journey, I have decided to create a 101 in 1001 list to get me started. I have set some new goals in all aspects of my life. I plan to get my blog back on track and commit to writing about the next year... I will post it as soon as I finish the list.. I'm about half way through!
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